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‘He Gives Me Best Sex’, Mine Is Too Jealous’, Ladies Speak About Role Of ‘Sugar Daddies’

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A sugar daddy, according to Merriam Webster English Dictionary, is a well-to-do man, usually older men, who supports or spends lavishly on a mistress, girlfriend or boyfriend.

The phenomenon of sugar daddies is not novel. In fact, the act of older, married men soliciting the attention of younger ladies had been in existence long before the term “sugar daddy” was coined.

In Nigeria, a sugar daddy is deemed to be a married man between the age of 50 and above.

In recent times, however, married men from 35 years are considered sugar daddies. The stereotype of old men being sugar daddies alone is gradually fading, as more younger men with money are now regarded as sugar daddies.

A sugar daddy is known to spend lavishly on his “sugar baby”. These girls are between the ages of 18-30 years. A sugar baby expects her sugar daddy to send her abroad on an all-expense-paid trip, rent the best apartment for her and generally take care of all her financial needs in exchange for a “sugar time”.

This sugar time is a sexual experience that the financier receives. It has been claimed that sugar babies give their sugar daddies the best sugar time, a standard some wives, it is claimed, may not be able to match.

In the past, young ladies have been shamed and called all sorts of names by society for “sleeping with a man in exchange for financial support”. They have been called names like ‘prostitute’, ‘husband snatcher’, and ‘witches’. They have also been claimed to use diabolical means to charm the older men to their beds.

But in recent times, it seems girls and younger ladies are not afraid and are even ready to “test the waters” as they display their sugar daddies on social media no matter the consequences.

In an interview with Newsbreak, some ladies between the age of 18-28 have shared their thoughts and experience on the subject matter.

A 24-year-old, who simply identified herself as Ola, said: “Personally I have nothing against a girl having a sugar daddy, as long as your not destroying someone’s home.”

For some ladies, they believe a married man can be their destiny helper. Shutting him out because he demanded sex, according to them, is outright foolishness.

Tilda, 26, “Let’s be honest. This life is a small circle, A married man could be your upliftment tomorrow.”

Another school of thought have, however, expressed their lack of sexual pleasure from their supposed sugar daddy. According to them, their sugar daddies can apparently not match their sexual desires.

“Apparently I have a sugar daddy that lives in the US. He sends me money and takes care of me, he recently came back to Nigeria and we have sex every day (whenever he is around). He is old and very jealous. I don’t enjoy sex with him at all, he is old and doesn’t spice things up.

“I currently have another guy that sexually satisfies me, while my sugar daddy financially satisfies me,” one of the ladies, who craved anonymity, said.

But another lady disagreed, saying her sugar daddy gives her both financial and sexual satisfaction.

“My sugar daddy is quite young. He gave me the best sex of my life. I have never seen a man with a Sexual fetish and I love it. He loves experimenting and am the right girl for him because I love nasty things,” she said.

The concept of sugar babies has been said to have destroyed the homes of married men. It has become a topic of contention on the subject matter itself.

Some of the ladies, however, insisted that a “sugar baby” must be smart enough not to cause rancour in the home of her financier.

Tilda said, “In this life, we have all dated married men. I am not against it, where I don’t like is when you know he is married with kids and then all you do is get pregnant for the man because you want to get rid of his wife. I don’t support a sugar girl who does this.”

Some sugar daddies, it was learnt, know how to keep their sugar babies outside their family to prevent drama.

“I have a sugar daddy and I don’t make trouble with his wife. My sugar daddy takes care of his family because he owes them that. He doesn’t mix my relationship with him with his family. When I need something he gives to me, when he wants something I give it to him,” a lady, who identified herself simply as BB, said.

Over time, the question surrounding the relationship between a sugar daddy and sugar baby remains asked: Are sugar babies prostitutes?

Shugar said: “I am 32 and I am happy. I’m not thinking of marriage because it’s not for me. I can’t cope with a man all my life. It’s his pocket that is useful to me, nothing else. I have sex with him, he gives me money and I get out”.

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I Applied To Study At Oxford University For Fun, Says DJ Cuppy

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By Abimbola Emmanuel

Popular disc jockey, Florence Otedola, better known as DJ Cuppy, has stirred up the social media space with her recent revelation about her education.

Speaking with a journalist about her education at the prestigious Oxford University, the singer revealed that her application to the school was just for fun.

According to her, she thought that learning at Oxford University was going to be online, but it’s not and she has no choice but to live in Oxford.

However, several reactions have trailed the revelation of the singer.

It would be recalled that earlier this year, the singer had announced her admission into the school to study for a master’s degree programme.

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Don Jazzy Respond To Gay Allegation Levelled Against Him

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Music producer and label boss, Michael Collins Ajereh, better known as Don Jazzy, has responded to a homosexual allegation pointing at him.

A popular Instagram blogger called out the Mavin Record boss and alleged that he is gay while maintaining that homosexuals have a woman as a coverup from the public.

... read: “Hello Tueh Tueh, ladies open your eyes o, this is the popular trend in the industry now, gay are not getting married to opposite sex thereby subjecting their spouse to emotional tørture, alot of your favorites are sitting pretty on this table, even one just welcomed a baby recently in the us, his hostility towards the wife is on another level, according to him, na my papa say make I go marry so i don marry to please am, una favorite instagram influencer dey on this table, your favorite comedian wey dey call himself aunty e.g that one all him client for this [email protected] knacking business na abuja dem dey, ladies be at alert, if you must be a gay or whatever, come out of the closet already, stop punishing our girls (sic).”

“Do your GAY in peace and stop deceiving our girls, come out of the closet, if we start to do roll call yeah Instagram fit catch fire now now, Don Baba J oga oga, i Dey hail oÀÄÅÅÅ i come in peace, igi ewedu oni woluwa ooooo (sic).”

Reacting to this, Don Jazzy reposted ... and wrote: “So I hear I’m gay all the time. Anyways click on the link on my bio. Subscribe to my YouTube channel. Click on the notification bell too oooo. Cos I’m going to be coming out there.”

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23 Burnt To Death By Bandits In Sokoto Bus Attack

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At least 23 passengers, including children, were burnt to death when their bus was ambushed by gunmen suspected to be bandits in Sokoto State, police have said.

They were travelling from the town of Sabon Birni to the town of Isa near the border with Niger.

Sokoto police command spokesperson, Sanusi Abubakar, told the BBC that several others are being treated in a hospital for severe burns.

Some reports suggest the number of those killed is around 30.

One of those involved in evacuating the casualties described the scene as “horrendous” and that most of the victims were burnt beyond recognition.

The attack happened late on Monday but details are just emerging due to poor communication services in the area.

Some reports say the attackers deliberately set the vehicle on fire burning the occupants alive while another account indicates the fire ignited on the bus as a result of the attackers’ gunfire.

The police say they are investigating the circumstances of the attack.

Muhammad Bello, the spokesman to Aminu Tambuwal, Governor of Sokoto State, confirmed the development in a statement on Wednesday.

“Contrary to speculations that over 40 people lost their lives in a bandits attack on a 42-seater bus traveling to Kaduna on Monday, facts have emerged that 23 people lost their lives during an attack at Gidan Bawa village in Isa local government area of Sokoto state,” the statement read.

“Security chiefs in Sokoto state, comprising heads of the Nigerian Army, Nigerian Air Force, the Nigeria Police, Department of State Security and the Nigerian Security and Civil Defence Corps as well as the Chairmen of Isa and Sabon Birni local government areas had briefed the state Governor, Aminu Waziri Tambuwal, on the incident at the Government House, Sokoto, Wednesday, pledging to work with it on modalities to checkmate future occurrences.”

While commiserating with the families of the victims, the state government added that strategies are being put in place to prevent a reoccurrence.

Travellers are frequently targeted as the region continues to grapple with a wave of violence by armed gangs carrying out kidnappings for ransom as well as killings.

Additional reporting from the BBC and TheCable

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