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8 common struggles in a long-distance relationship




Every long-distance relationship knows that the distance comes with a price.

If normal couples face struggles every day in their relationship then what more for people who are a thousand miles apart?

These struggles, whether they be big or small, are normal and should be dealt with maturely and effectively.

Problems only arise whenever these are avoided or hidden away. Do not think that you and your partner are alone in these hardships!

Listed down below are 8 struggles only couples in a long-distance relationship will understand:

1. Slow communication

Have you ever had the urge to whack your computer screen because it takes so long to send a message to your partner because the signal is very, very, slow? If yes, then you are not alone.  Most long-distance relationship couples experience technical difficulties in their relationships. Sometimes the phone is not working, or your internet ran out of data, and sometimes your computer has the nerve to crash during important video call moments! This is pretty regular and the only solution is to be patient and push that restart button.

2. Lack of support

Oftentimes, because of the mountains and oceans separating you and your partner, it is quite difficult to be there to give your physical, emotional, and metal support. Whenever your girlfriend or boyfriend calls you to let you know that she or he had a bad day, you can not be there even if you wanted to, you can not give him or her a hug and reassure your loved one that it is okay. This struggle is quite common and is sometimes a breaker in some relationships if one in the relationship is emotionally immature.

3. Hectic schedules

You and your partner are obviously two different breathing beings hence even if you two are in a relationship, both of you will lead different lives especially if you are involved with someone who is a few towns away from you. One of the most cited struggles of long-distance loving is the hectic schedule. School, work, extracurricular activities, you name it! There will be times that you will find yourself exhausted after a long day at work only to finally check your phone and your partner has left you 34 missed calls and 57 messages. Yikes! Always remember: Time management is the key.

4. Longing

It is quite impossible to not miss your boyfriend or girlfriend, especially if you do not see them every day. The feeling of longing will surely creep into you every now and then but it is nice to know that this is a normal struggle every long-distance relationship couple faces.

5. Cancellations

Date cancellations are hard but cancellations in long-distance relationships are painfully hard because you work and plan it for weeks, sometimes even months, for it to just go through the trash bin! Say goodbye to that beach trip, or to that restaurant date, or even that call that you have been waiting for hours! Sometimes cancellations are unavoidable because of unforeseen circumstances so you must not blame your partner for it.

6. Relationship invaders

Since you are not commonly seen with your partner, it is easily understandable for other people to think that you are on the market. Some will come up to you, flirt with you, or even invite you out to dinner, and the same thing will probably happen to your boyfriend or girlfriend too!

7. Misunderstandings

Misunderstandings are difficult to repair during a long-distance relationship. Why? Because you are not there to physically explain it to your loved one! Misunderstandings are also more likely to happen in this type of relationship. For example, if you send a goodnight text to your partner without a heart emoticon, he or she might interpret it as “there is something wrong” and your insistence that in fact, nothing is wrong will lead them to think that you may be hiding it, and then voila! A misunderstanding is born. Even as simple as an emoticon can cause that.

8. Trust issues

Lastly, trust issues. This is not good, especially if either you or your partner has this before the relationship even began. Trust issues can give birth to a whole lot of other issues and struggles like jealousy, bad communication, or suffocation in a relationship. Maybe one thing that can help ease this struggle is to never make your partner feel left out.


4 brilliant ways social media use can benefit your kids



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Back in the day, debates, speeches, events were considered the ‘only’ ways for a child to showcase their inner creativity and talent, even if in a limited realm. With the advancement of social media, kids today have a lot more scope to present and even hone their talent, express themselves in a way they deem fit, and even work around with a wider audience. Podcasts, fandoms, creative communities and many online courses grant kids the freedom to express themselves freely, as they like.

When should you give kids cellular access then?

Even with all the positive benefits, do remember that social media and phone use for the kids can be a tricky road to navigate, for there can be just as many negatives. With the times changing, kids today have access to phones a lot earlier than their seniors. Again, while it’s a purely personal decision to make, it’s important to assess your child’s maturity, cognitive skills, sensitivity and problem-solving skills before giving them access.

Should you monitor their online presence?

This, again, can be a difficult decision to make. The important thing to keep in mind is trust. Snooping in on your child’s phone can also trouble your relationship with them. A wiser stance would be to work out a deal where you allow them the freedom to have a separate online presence, not frequently check or snoop, but also be in the know of the online friends they talk to, the content that they share online. Have a freewheeling chat with them to follow social media protocols, keep some sites off-limits, and be safe on the internet. For your own reassurance, consider using parental locks, or restricting usage where necessary.

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5 healthiest milk you should consider drinking regularly



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Milk is a nutritious drink that contains essential vitamins and minerals. Milk is a rich source of calcium and protein.

There are different types of milk, some are gotten from plants while others are from animals.

This article will review some healthiest types of milk for drinking according to healthline.

1. Oat milk

Oat milk contains essential nutrients and carbohydrates. It is rich in fiber which helps in digestion and reduction of bad cholesterol. Oat milk is gotten by soaking oats in water.

2. Almond milk

Almond milk is a good alternative for those that did not like dairy milk. It is low in carbs and protein. Almond milk taste great and can be produced by blending soaked almond. After blending, the shaft can be removed from the milk.

3. Coconut milk

Coconut milk is rich in nutrients and fats but low in protein. It is also a good alternative to dairy milk. Coconut is normally blended to remove its milk.

4. Dairy milk

Cow milk is a rich source of vitamins and minerals for both young and old. Many people like it because of its great taste.

5. Soy milk

Soy milk is embedded with nutrients including protein. They may help in reducing cholesterol level of the blood.

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4 things couples should do after s*x to avoid infection




This is why you need to take the necessary precautions in order to promote your private organs.

In this article, I am going to be talking about 4 things couples should do after sêx to avoid infections.

1. Wash Up

You don’t really have to jump out of the bed into the shower right away, you will have clean out your genitals first. All your have to do is just use clean warm water with mild non-fragrant soap to clean areas around your private area.

2. Don’t douche

You don’t necessarily have to use soap and warm water to wash your private areas directly especially for the women. It can clean itself as it has bacteria which helps in protecting the body.

It is also important that you keep in mind that mild smell is normal and may not be a sign of a problem.

3. Keep clean up simple

Don’t go using creams, sprays and harsh soaps to clean up your area. Just stick to a gentle rinse with warm water after sex. Avoid scent sprays, perfumes and pads in your private areas.

4. Empty your bladder

During intimacy, infections can get into the private organ of the body, going to the toilet to relieve yourself helps in removing some bacteria which might get into your uretha.

Couples should have their fun but always do the necessary things to say healthy.

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