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Does He Love Me? 8 Signs A Guy Is Crazy About You

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Sometimes, you need more than those three little words to know for sure that your partner loves you. Actions speak a lot louder than words anyway, so if you really want to know how he feels, it’s a better idea to look for clues within his behavior. When a guy is genuinely in love with someone, he usually treats that person differently from how he treats others. The clues are easy to spot if you know what to look for! Keep reading for eight signs that a guy is crazy in love with you.

He lets you be yourself.

When a guy truly loves you, he loves all of you. He loves the real you, so you don’t have to pretend to be someone else when you’re with him. You’ll know that his feelings are real when he encourages you to be who you are. If he only wants you when you’re at your best or when you’re watering down your personality to be more agreeable, it’s not real love.

He forgives your mistakes.
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Everyone makes mistakes. When you love someone, you forgive them when they screw up. You move on from past issues that you’ve had rather than holding them against the person. You’ll know that it’s a sign he really loves you if he’s willing to give you a second chance after you mess up.

He makes you a priority.
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Naturally, we prioritize the people that we genuinely love. It doesn’t matter how busy is, if he loves you then he will make you a priority. Many people believe that excuses like being too busy or wanting to focus on work are just code for “I don’t love you enough to make this work”. You’ll know that he’s making you a priority when he is determined to see you, even when he’s got other things going on. And when he’s committed to making things work with you, no matter how hard it is.

He puts up with inconveniences for you.
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A guy putting up with inconveniences just so he can be with you is a sign that he loves you. This might be him putting up with any baggage you have, doing a long-distance relationship, or working around your annoying schedule. Whatever the case may be, if he’s willing to put himself out for you, it’s a sign that he may really love you.

He defends you in public.
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It’s not always easy to defend someone in public. But a person who’s in love is likely to stick up for their partner when other people come for them in a public setting. It might be in real life or on social media. But if he sticks up for you in front of other people, it’s a sign that his feelings are real.

He’s there for you when you need him.
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When a guy is in love with you, he’ll be there for you when you need him. This might be when you need to talk to someone or cry to someone. It could be when you need help with something. Whatever the case might be, he’ll want to be there for you. You’ll eventually see that he’s there for you like a ride or die and put your trust in him, which is one of the pillars of a great relationship.

He talks about the future with you.
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Talking about a future together is a very promising sign. When a guy does this, it could indicate that he’s genuinely planning a future with you in his head. Look out for him asking questions about your future plans or even saying directly that he envisions you in his future. Of course, some people do specifically bring up the future to squeeze a certain reaction out of you, so make sure that the rest of his actions back this up too.

He apologizes when he hurts you.
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When you make mistakes, a guy who loves you will forgive you. And when he makes mistakes, he’ll apologize and request the same forgiveness. Also, a guy who truly loves you and cares about your wellbeing won’t continue to make the same mistakes that hurt you. If he hurts you once, he’ll take care not to do it again. Sorry doesn’t mean anything if you repeat the behavior again and again.

 

 

 

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Why Intelligent Women Struggle To Find Longlasting Love

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Intelligence is one of the most attractive qualities you can have, but for those of us who possess a higher than average IQ or some pretty intense street smarts, that characteristic can work against us. Many of us find it much harder to meet someone with whom we connect on a deeper level and therefore we end up staying single much longer. Here’s why intelligent women struggle a bit more than average when it comes to love.

We want the real thing.

Intelligent women want real, long-lasting love. We don’t want fake, we don’t want temporary, and we don’t want to waste our time. We’re looking for a partner that respects us, prioritizes us, and who knows how to treat a woman. We’re not looking for people we have to train or fix. We have our own projects to do, and relationships shouldn’t be one of them.

We don’t fall for lies and bulls**t.
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Because intelligent women have heard every BS excuse and lie in the book, it’s pretty hard to get anything past us. We can spot a player a hundred miles away and we’re not going to fall for all the crap that a lot of guys try to pull when they’re not 100% into the relationship but don’t want to cut things off. Because of that, we’d rather wait for someone who’s actually capable of and interested in love than waste our time and energy.

We know better than to lower our standards.
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We have high (but totally reasonable) standards and expectations when it comes to the people we date and the relationships we’re in. If the person we’re seeing undermines those standards, ignores our boundaries, or simply isn’t interested in them either way, intelligent women have no problem walking away. We could never love someone who doesn’t respect us.

We find just as much fulfillment in being alone.
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Intelligent women want love, of course – we’re only human. However, we’re also really comfortable with our own company and legitimately enjoy spending time on our own. We know better than to believe the lie that we need a partner in order to live a happy, fulfilled life. Because of that, we’re not in as much of a hurry to jump into anything. A potential partner has to prove that they’re worth it.

We need someone who’s on our level.
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Yes, we’re well aware that we need to be on our partner’s level as well. Relationships are all about a partnership of equals, and intelligent women want intelligent men (or other intelligent women/people). If we’re coming from two different places, it’ll never work. We’re happy to hold out until we find what we’re looking for.

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How To Cope When You Love Each Other But Can’t Be Together

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There’s nothing worse than being head over heels in love with someone that you know you can’t be with. Whether one of you is already in a relationship or the timing simply isn’t right, it can be devastating to accept that it’s just not going to work out. However, that doesn’t mean it has to ruin your life. Here’s how to cope when you love each other but can’t be together.

Acknowledge and reflect on your feelings.

It’s important that you don’t bottle up your feelings or pretend like they don’t exist — that’s not going to help anyone. Acknowledge that you really love this person and that you’re upset that you can’t be together. Give yourself space to mourn your broken heart and reflect on how you feel about them and why it’s maybe better that things didn’t work out the way you might have hoped. Over time, this will help bring you clarity.

Find a way to make peace with the situation.
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This is easier said than done and perhaps is something you won’t be able to achieve until a bit further down the line, but it’s possible and important to strive for. It’s vital that you find a way to accept the reality of your situation with this person so that you can move on in your life instead of holding onto something that’s not meant for you.

Indulge in self-care.
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Just because you love each other but can’t be together doesn’t mean that you should let your love for yourself become neglected. As you reflect on your feelings and work on moving past them, it’s important to look after yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Make sure to feed your body nourishing foods, get a bit of movement on a daily basis, do a bit of meditation, hang out with people who make you feel good, etc. You deserve at least that.

Figure out if a friendship is possible.
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This is another step that may not be possible or appropriate right away (or ever). However, just because you can’t be in a romantic relationship with this person doesn’t necessarily mean you can’t be in one another’s lives. Not being together as lovers doesn’t have to prohibit you from being friends, particularly if you connected on more than just a romantic level. If you’re both up for it when the more intense feelings have faded, you could have a beautiful platonic relationship.

Open your heart to someone else when you’re ready.
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It’s going to take time to get over your feelings for the person you love but can’t be with, but eventually, you will. When that point comes, open yourself up to new love and enjoy being together in a situation that’s right. It may seem hard to fathom just yet, but I promise you when it comes along, it’ll be so worth it.

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Important Things A Guy Will Do If He Wants You In His Life

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When you hit it off with a guy and feel like you could have something real together, you want to know if he’s on the same page as you so that you’re not wasting any of your precious time and energy on someone who’s just not feeling it. When a guy wants you in his life, he’ll do some very important things to show you. Keep an eye out for these behaviors — if they’re there, that’s a very good sign.

He’ll be consistent.

A guy who wants you in his life isn’t going to pop in and out of it whenever he can be bothered. He’ll call or text when he says he will, show up when he makes plans with you, and act like he likes you consistently rather than playing you hot and cold. He won’t want to do anything that would jeopardize your relationship so he’ll behave accordingly.

He’ll make space for you.
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By “space” I mean literally and figuratively. He’ll be open, honest, and willing to let you in to get to know him even if that kind of vulnerability is scary, which is a pretty big move. However, he’ll also make physical space for you in his world, perhaps by not freaking out if you leave stuff at his place (if you’re that far along in your relationship) or even inviting you into his home instead of always wanting to come to yours.

He’ll make time for you.
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A guy who wants you in his life will always make time for you, no matter how busy he is or how much else has going on. That’s not to say that you should be his #1 priority and he should be available for you 24 hours a day, seven days a week. However, he’ll make sure he carves out quality time to spend with you so you can grow and maintain your bond and become a stronger couple.

He’ll treat you with respect.
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It goes without saying that you can’t be with someone who doesn’t respect you. He doesn’t have to agree with everything you say, do, or think to validate and accept you regardless. If this guy wants you in his life, he’ll have to understand that you are his equal and you’re a valuable human being as well as his partner.

He’ll be there for you.
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A good boyfriend is someone who’s there for you when the times are tough as well as when they’re fun. If a guy wants you in his life, he’ll make sure that he’s there as a vital part of your support system to uplift you, be a shoulder to cry on, and give you the backup you might need in a difficult situation. Better yet, he won’t even think twice about doing it – it’ll come naturally.

He’ll stop talking to other women.
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At the end of the day, there’s no reason for him to be active on dating apps or chatting to other women on social media if he wants to be with you. If he’s still playing the field, he’s clearly not serious about you and definitely not worth wasting any more time on. See ya later, buddy!

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