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Signs A Guy Is Emotionally Attached To You And Ready To Get Deep

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Just because you have initial chemistry doesn’t mean that you’re automatically going to have a deep connection with a guy. Even if you fall head over heels for him, there’s no guarantee that he’s going to reciprocate. So how do you know when he’s emotionally attached to you and your connection goes beyond surface-level? Look for these signs — if you recognize any of them, chances are you’re not alone in your feelings.

He opens up to you and lets you know him.

A guy who keeps you at arm’s length isn’t one who has any plans on getting close to you. However, you know he’s emotionally attached if he’s open and honest with you, letting you get to know the real him beyond the one he shows to the outside world. You feel like you can talk to him about anything and get a sense that he’s comfortable knowing that you would never judge him for anything.

He makes you feel loved and appreciated.
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If your connection was only sexual, for instance, he probably wouldn’t care all that much about how you felt outside the bedroom (if there, even). However, a guy who’s emotionally attached feels strongly about building a real, long-lasting connection and knows that ensuring you feel loved and appreciated is part of keeping your relationship evolving and thriving.

He cares about more than sex.
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He doesn’t avoid coming over if he knows you have your period and sex isn’t on the cards. He also doesn’t push that kind of intimacy every single time you’re hanging out. You’re able to watch a movie on the couch together without his hand climbing up your thigh or his arm reaching down towards your chest. He’s just as invested in making sure you’re connected emotionally as he is interested in what goes on between the sheets.

He comes to you for advice and support.
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One of the biggest signs that the guy is emotionally attached to you is when he makes it clear how much he values your thoughts, feelings, and opinions. He comes to you when he has a problem or he’s feeling confused about something because he knows you’ll give great advice since you know him so well. It’s a pretty special relationship you have.

He considers you when making decisions.
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Instead of making big decisions that will affect both of you all on his own, the guy who’s emotionally attached to you will take you into account every step of the way. He would never accept a job out of town or decide to take a job that would mean he works nights and you’d never see each other without talking to you first.

He wants to introduce you to his friends and family.
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If he didn’t feel emotionally attached to you, he wouldn’t bother to introduce you to the other people in his life that he’s close to. By wanting to make those connections, he’s showing just how much he loves having you in his life (and he plans to keep you there for a long time to come).

He goes the extra mile for you.
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Perhaps one of the biggest signs that a guy is emotionally attached to you lies in the things he does rather than the things he says. If he’s always going above and beyond to make your life an easier, happier, more love-filled place, you know you’ve got a good one on your hands.

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How To Get Over A Breakup When You Still Love Your Ex

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Getting over a breakup when you still love your ex can feel impossible. As painful as it is, it is possible to move on when your heart is still pining for someone. It just takes discipline, kindness, and patience. Here’s how to get over a breakup when you still love your ex.

Allow yourself to feel sad.

Unfortunately, there’s no quick-fix answer when it comes to getting over a break up. The bad news is this can be one of the hardest things you’ll do in your life. And it’s often a very painful process. The most important thing to remember is that it’s okay to feel sad. Don’t beat yourself up for not being over the breakup by the time you think you should be over it. Everyone heals differently and it might take you more time than expected. If you still feel sad, the only thing to do is to embrace those feelings. If you have to, cry it out.

Get out of the house.
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Distractions can be a major help when it comes to getting over a breakup. You might feel like staying in and crying, and that’s okay to do sometimes. But if you’ve been stuck at home for multiple days in a row, it might be time to bring in some distractions. Try getting out of the house, even if it’s to just go for a walk. Ideally, you should plan to do something that will make you feel good, like seeing a movie or going out to eat at your favorite restaurant. You’ll likely feel better when you get out and start living again.

Find other sources of love.
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Just because your ex isn’t in your life anymore doesn’t mean you have to live without love altogether. Instead of pining that lost relationship, focus on the other sources of love in your life. Nurture your relationships with your family and friends. And if you don’t have many other sources of love, it’s time to find some. Foster new platonic relationships or even look for love in other places. Fall in love with a new hobby, find a new passion, or even adopt a pet (only if you can commit to looking after it properly for the rest of its life—not a temporary source of love).

Remind yourself why it didn’t work.
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Sometimes, thinking logically about things can really help you to feel better emotionally. To get over your breakup when you’re still in love, write a list of all the reasons why it didn’t work. Focus on those instead of romanticizing the past. It won’t make you fall out of love overnight, but it will help to cement in your mind why you can’t go back to that person, and why you’re better off without them.

Surround yourself with the right people.
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In the weeks following a breakup, choose your company very carefully. You’re likely to be in a fragile state and should only have space for people who enhance your life. Don’t spend time with people who will make you feel bad about yourself. That can make it harder to get over a relationship that’s already hard to get over. Spend your time with positive people who will encourage you to feel good and move forward.

Avoid happy couples.
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It’s not happy couples’ fault that they’re happy. But still, you don’t need to surround yourself with all that happiness when you’re trying to get over a breakup. If you do, you might be tempted to make things work with your ex so you can have that happiness too, when you should be moving on. Rather than hanging out with your friends who are in couples, spend time with those who are single just until you don’t feel so fragile.

Get off social media.
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You should also be selective about what you choose to look at on social media. Looking at happy couples, or even your ex, will make you feel worse—not better. Sometimes, it’s safer to just ditch social media altogether. Instead, focus on living your life, being present, and hanging out with people who genuinely care about you.

Give it time.
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You can’t rush your emotions. If you still love someone, you still love them. No matter what you do to make yourself feel better, the only real answer is time. After a certain amount of time—and that amount is different for everyone—you will feel better about things. You will see clearly and you won’t feel so desperately in love with someone who’s not good for you. But you can’t rush it. Time works in its own way and you just have to be patient.

Work on your self-love.
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Until time heals your wounds, you should work on loving yourself. As cliched as it sounds, self-love will help you to get over a breakup because it will remind you why you deserve to be happy. Spend time loving yourself and you’ll start to feel deserving of real love rather than what you were receiving in your former relationship.

 

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How Toxic Relationships Affect You Even After You’re Out Of Them

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You did it! You got out of the toxic relationships you were in, and now you’re ready to rebuild your life. Why, then, do you still feel weighed down by those unhealthy bonds? Even after leaving them, relationships can leave a mark. Here are the surprising ways the toxic relationships of your past affect you long after you leave them behind.

You blame yourself.

After dealing with a toxic relationship, it’s common to blame yourself for what happened. You may feel like you were the cause of the relationship problems, or at minimum, it’s your fault for falling for someone who was so wrong for you. Part of you might even believe that if only you made wiser decisions, the relationship would still exist today, and perhaps without all the toxic baggage. It’s important to remember that an unhealthy relationship requires two people to maintain it. While you’re responsible for some aspects of the relationship problems, you certainly aren’t solely to blame. Not only that, but you are never at fault for someone else’s abusive or manipulative behaviors.

You feel numb.
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Toxic relationships can stir up a whirlwind of emotions, and when the relationship ends and everything settles, you might realize that it still affects you because you actually feel, well, nothing. You’re not happy or sad; you’re just numb. It’s normal to feel numb temporarily after leaving a bad relationship. As you start recovering and picking up the pieces of your life, slowly you should start to notice your feelings (both positive and uncomfortable ones) returning.

You lost your sense of self.
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Our identities can get all wrapped up in toxic relationships, especially if you molded your personality and interests to be like your ex’s. Now, without that relationship, you’re lost and wondering who you really are. This is a scary, yet constructive, phase to be in. You probably weren’t your best self in that relationship, but now you have a chance to reclaim and reinvent who you really are.

You’re scared of choosing the wrong person again.
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People don’t come with a warning label. If they did, dating would be so much easier. While toxic partners might wave some red flags early in the relationship, others are master manipulators, making it nearly impossible to see their true colors until later. Trust that you did the best you could, and you’re capable of making better relationship choices in the future.

You gaslight yourself.
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After an abusive relationship, you might have trouble trusting your own judgment. If you were gaslighted by a toxic ex, it’s common to internalize their words and second-guess everything you think or feel. You might believe you’re too crazy to be trusted, or that you’re just too sensitive and overthinking everything. Then, when you start dating again, you may shut down the signals your gut is trying to tell you, choosing to put blind faith in a new person instead of having faith in yourself.

You crave and fear intimacy simultaneously.
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After being seriously burned by a past partner, vulnerability might start to look like the enemy. What if you open up and get close, only to be hurt again? This doesn’t mean you avoid relationships entirely, though. But when you start a new relationship, you might feel yourself switching between hot and cold, craving closeness yet pushing it away soon after.

You prefer chaos over calm.
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You might subconsciously gravitate towards toxic relationships after being in one before because it feels familiar. The constant ups and downs, the chase, the feeling of reward when the other person finally gives you a little attention—you deserve so much better than this, yet a healthy and calm relationship might actually freak you out. This is a normal response after a traumatic relationship, but it’s a response worth working to change.

You feel disconnected and alone.
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Toxic relationships often involve enmeshment, where there are no clear boundaries or separation between two people. While in your toxic relationship, you may have neglected friendships, and likewise, some friends may have distanced themselves if they didn’t agree with your relationship. Even if this isn’t the case, it’s typical to feel disconnected or alone after leaving toxic relationships. You may think that people can’t understand what you’re going through, or that they’ll judge or take advantage of you like your toxic partner did.

You settle for superficial relationships.
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 It’s common to turn to quick flings after a bad breakup. But this is especially true if you were in a toxic relationship, and settling for shallow connections may even become a long-term habit. One common quality of toxic relationships is that there’s a major power imbalance. Because of this, you might be desperate to regain power (and even overpower others) after leaving that relationship. To cope, you become a bona fide female player. Playing the field isn’t always a bad thing, but when it comes to healing after a toxic relationship, it can only distract you for so long.

You learn to recover and move on. 
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Toxic relationships can linger long after they’re gone. But eventually, you’ll start to notice you feel free and empowered to explore other options, whether that be enjoying the single life or dating better people. The truth is your toxic relationships will continue to affect you. You have a bundle of memories and experiences wrapped up in those relationships that you can’t just leave in the past. But you can use that to your advantage. Sometimes, it takes being in a bad relationship (or several) to finally learn that you deserve better. And sometimes, finding the right person means learning to avoid the wrong ones. No matter what stage you’re currently at after leaving a toxic relationship, trust that there’s a brighter, non-toxic future ahead.

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Cardi B Is Releasing Vodka-Infused Whipped Cream To Make Your Holiday Treats Even Better

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There’s no dessert or coffee drink that a dollop of whipped cream can’t improve, but this Christmas, things are getting a whole lot better. Why’s that? Well, Cardi B is releasing her own vodka-infused non-dairy whipped cream just in time for the holidays. There’s no limit to what you can add this stuff to!

They’re called Whipshots and they come in three flavors. Starco Brands worked with the rapper to come up with Whipshots, the non-dairy cream topping that has actual vodka in it. Better yet, there are three different flavors so there’s something for everyone: Vanilla, Caramel, and Mocha.

It’s meant to be a luxury product that’s still a whole lot of fun. The company said in a statement to Thrillist that working with Cardi B on the project was a no-brainer given her “iconic sense of playfulness, style, and entrepreneurial prowess” which she lent to “the creative direction of the brand.” They added: “Unlike any other spirit on the market, Whipshots combines luxury and indulgence with unmatched flavor to create a boozy whipped cream that’s as fun and flirtatious as its consumers.”

The official release isn’t until next year. Whipshots will start appearing in stores from early 2022 at retailers nationwide. The 50mL bottles will go for $5.99 but if you need just a bit more, you can grab a 375 mL bottle for $19.99.

If you’re desperate to try it now, Starco Brands is releasing 500 cans early. You’ll have to head to Whipshots.com between December 1 and December 31 to be in with a chance to get one, though. Be quick!

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