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How To Make A Guy Fall Crazy In Love With You

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Wouldn’t it be great if there was a magic potion or spell that meant someone would fall in love with us with the snap of a finger? In a non-creepy way, hopefully. At least then we’d know that they meant it and weren’t just trying to trick us into giving our heart to them. All this to say, trying to figure out whether the person we’re interested in is interested in us or not, it’s so stressful. Here are a few ways you can whittle down the process, save yourself some time, and make a guy fall in love with you.

Communicate.

There’s nothing sexier than communication, trust me. More than that, guys don’t realize that having their needs met is easier than they think. If you think about it, it’s almost like a cheat code-  just asking for the answers. Check in with him regularly and see what he needs out of the relationship. This will serve as the perfect time to reassert what you want out of the relationship too. It’s a win-win, and he’ll will feel so mature and adult. The key is that he loves the version of himself that he is when he’s with you. This may or may not make the guy fall in love with you as well.

Don’t be afraid to start the conversation.
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Send the first text. Don’t get hung up on dated gender roles or relationship standards. Make your own rules, and use your instincts. If you’re thinking about them, message them. It’s refreshing to not have to play all the relationship games. It’s not something that you can win or lose – it’s all about the journey. Put that on a poster. But, for real – it takes the pressure off him to start everything all the time. Maybe sometimes you ask him out and propose a date. We can’t expect guys to foot the bill if we aren’t willing to go through the same. It takes courage to ask someone out, even if you’re sure of the answer. Acknowledge that.

Be bold.
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Get a new haircut, try on some new clothes. Maybe mix it up with the styles that you haven’t ever really experimented with. This will amp up your confidence and spontaneity and filter into the relationship. You will keep your guy on his toes and he’ll go crazy chasing after you.

Play hard to get.
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Is this a cliche? Maybe. But does it work? Heck yeah. The important thing to remember is that this is all a bit of fun and a way of reminding him about what he’s missing. It’s a little look into power dynamics and reasserting your own power in the relationship. Don’t be cruel or leave him on read for days, otherwise, he’ll think you’re uninterested and you will waste your own time. If you want to make a guy fall in love with you, you’ll have to be clever about it.

Hang out with his friends.
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If you aren’t sure that you have lots in common at the start, try hanging out in a group with his friends. This is an easy, low-pressure way of getting to know him without the awkward small talk. He’ll be at ease too, so you will see another side to him, as he will you. Plus, if is friends are crazy about you, it’ll be more likely to make the guy fall in love with you.

Give him space.
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This sets a healthy boundary to the relationship. No one wants to be smothered, so you can take your own space too without feeling like you’re running away. There’s a delicate balance that is so important to maintain between intimacy and reflection. You all need time apart and with other people, it keeps us grounded.

Send memes.
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It’s such a simple, free gesture that means you’re thinking about someone. You can also show them your goofy humor and the personality that you might hide from the outside world. It’s a little more familiar than just a text, and sending memes can really make a person’s day.

Focus on small gestures.
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Don’t worry about big public romantic scenes from the rom-com. You don’t have to plan too far in advance or break the bank in order to meet your partner’s needs. Just bring back toilet paper without asking when you run out, and bring them ice cream when they’re sad. Emotions are complex but when you know a person it’s much easier to get a read and they’ll love you for it. You don’t have to be crazy to figure out what your partner wants.

Communicate – in the bedroom.
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The key to a happy sex life is the key to a happy life in general. I return you once more to the opening advice – be honest with what you want and how you want it, and they will make it happen.

Take all these options with a pinch of salt and good luck. Remember, if you want a way to impress the woman in your life, guys, these points still stand!

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How To Finally Stop Falling For The Wrong Guys Once And For All

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We’ve all been there before: you meet a guy we like, throw all your eggs in one basket, and don’t realize until it’s too late that he’s a total waste of time. It sucks, but it’s completely avoidable. If you keep falling for the wrong guys and you want to stop for good, here are some things you need to do. After all, you’re an amazing woman with so much to offer, but only if it’s to someone who’s on your level.

Raise your standards.

If you’re always falling for the wrong guys, the most likely reason is that you don’t have high enough standards. While you shouldn’t can’t the men you date to be gods on earth who are totally flawless and submit to your every whim, you can expect them to treat you with respect, keep their word, and pull their weight in the relationship. That’s the bare minimum! Raise your standards and hold guys to them – that will weed out the bulk of the bad ones right away.

Develop your self-worth.
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Perhaps one of the reasons you don’t have high standards is that you don’t have high enough self-esteem. You have to believe that you’re worthy of love, respect, and care in order to demand it from others. Otherwise, you’re always going to accept being treated poorly. Truly work on embracing and increasing your self-worth. You deserve it.

Don’t ignore red flags.
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Part of the reason you’re always falling for the wrong guys is that you probably overlook glaring red flags in the early stages of the relationship, thinking that you’ll get over them or they’ll go away. Wrong! If you notice that something seems a little off with a guy, don’t just write it off as paranoia or overlook it for the sake of continuing with the relationship. Things won’t get any better the longer you’re with him. Cut the cord immediately.

Make a list of what you want.
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It sounds silly to say that making a list of qualities you want in a guy can help you avoid ending up with the wrong ones but it really can. The clearer your head is about what you want from a partner will make it that much easier to shut things down when someone you’re dating doesn’t exhibit those traits or meet those expectations. I’m not saying you should be rigid in terms of your checklist – you do want to leave room for a genuinely great guy to surprise you – but you know the big stuff that’s important to you (or at least you should).

Take your time instead of jumping in head-first.
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Yes, it’s exciting when you meet a guy you really like, but that doesn’t mean you should go all-in before you really know him. Instead of throwing caution to the wind, you can avoid falling for the wrong guys by taking your time and paying close attention to how the relationship is progressing. Only when you truly get to know him should you feel safe to give a bit more of yourself.

Listen to your friends sometimes.
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While your friends’ thoughts and feelings shouldn’t dictate your life, in many situations, they can actually be extremely helpful. They want what’s best for you and because they’re not blinded by their feelings for the guy in question, they’re able to see more clearly when something’s not quite right. Listen to their opinions. You don’t always have to act on them, but recognize that they’re acting in your best interest and may actually be making some good points.

Trust your gut.
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At the end of the day, you know deep down when something is wrong. Trust that instinct and act on it. That will protect you.

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If You’re A Woman Who Loves Too Hard, Read This

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This is for the woman who loves too hard, who has so much affection in her heart for someone special but just hasn’t met the person who’s worthy of her just yet. If you feel hopeless and heartbroken because none of your relationships have worked out. If you feel like you’ll never find the one who understands your soul and appreciates your love, keep reading because girl, this is for you.

You are not too much. 

First of all, I just want to let you know that the way you love and the way you are is not too much. Despite what any of the people you’ve dated before may have told you, you don’t love too much and you’re not too intense. The thing is, the right person for you will never think that you’re too much or too intense. The right person for you, the person you’re supposed to be with will love the way that you love and will make you feel just enough.

Don’t let the bad ones jade you. 
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I know it’s hard to keep throwing yourself back into the dating ring when you’ve been knocked down so many times. If every relationship you’ve had has ended in heartbreak, you might be thinking, “What’s the point in trying again?” I hate that you’ve been burned by so many jerks, but don’t let that ruin the rest of the world for you. There are still amazing people out there, I promise you. Don’t let yourself become jaded because there have been some losers out there who haven’t handled your heart the way it deserves to be held. Keep holding onto the dream of love.

It’s okay to have standards. 
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Don’t let anyone from your past make you think that the perfect partner that you’re dreaming of isn’t out there or that you have to somehow adjust the things that you want in a romantic partner to find them. That is a complete and total lie. No, there are no perfect people out there. We all have flaws, but the perfect person for YOU is definitely out there and you should never have to settle for anyone that doesn’t meet your standards.

Take the time to focus on yourself. 
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As much as we all want to find our soulmate and fall hopelessly in love, you have to remember the importance of loving yourself and taking the time to really focus on your own goals and your own life. Everyone says this but, it’s totally true, you can’t fully love someone else until you truly love yourself. You should be your number one priority before any love interest. Once you’ve got yourself figured out, your eyes will be opened to so many past relationships and it’ll suddenly seem so clear why they didn’t work out and why it was a good thing that they didn’t. It’ll prepare you for better relationships in the future.

Romance is not dead. 
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Despite what the terrible people out there might make you believe, romance is in fact not dead. There are still incredible people out there who will sweep you off your feet and give you all of the storybook romance feels. It’s just a matter of finding them. Don’t let the pain of your past convince you that those kinds of lovers don’t exist and you have to settle for crumbs. Nothing could be further from the truth.

You can’t “scare off” the right person.
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With women that love with their whole hearts, it can be easy to convince ourselves that we need to tone ourselves down or mute our excitement because we “scare people off” with our intensity. Please. The right person for you could never be scared away by your enthusiasm for them or the budding relationship. You won’t have to contain your joy at all because it will be completely reciprocated by the right person.

Save it for the ones who deserve it. 
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Your love and what you have to offer someone is so huge and so incredible that you shouldn’t be wasting your efforts on someone who won’t appreciate you. If the person you’re trying to show love to isn’t appreciating it or seems put off, just save yourself the time and heartbreak and move on. They’re not the right one for you.

You’re not weak. You’re stronger than you know. 
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People might think you’re vulnerable or weak because you fall in love too easily, but what they don’t realize is that your ability to be so open and willing to love is what makes you stronger, not weaker. Having the courage to love again and again is what sets you apart from everyone else and I promise you that the right person will come along and see that strength.

Don’t let others’ opinions change you. 
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Sure, you might get some flack from your friends about the fact that you fall in love so quickly and that you try so hard in relationships, but who cares? You can’t win if you don’t play the game and you’re out there trying and giving it your all. That’s more than a lot of people can say. You’re a fighter who truly believes in love. Don’t let anyone take that away from you.

They’re out there. Don’t give up. 
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The most important thing to keep in mind is that your person is out there. The person who meets your passion and effort with appreciation and welcome. The person who sees you for the amazing, beautiful, poetic soul that you are and does everything they can to hold onto you because you are a true treasure. Don’t stop believing in love and your ability to find it. It’s out there. They’re out there.

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Dating An Aquarius Man: 12 Things You Should Know

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Aquarian men are one of a kind. Non-conformers, these are usually the most interesting signs you’ll meet. When it comes to dating them, they are impossible to replace as their personalities are so unique. But is dating them for everyone? Read on to find out if you’re cut out to date an Aquarius.

He’s a perfectionist.

You should always know what you’re getting into before you date a perfectionist. On the upside, they dress well, tend to say the right things, and set up some truly amazing dates. On the downside, though, they can be hyper-critical and have unrealistic expectations. Whether it works in your favor or not, Aquarian men tend to be perfectionists. They hold themselves, especially, to very high standards.

He can’t stand too many rules.
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Being an air sign, Aquarius hates being held down. He wants to be free to blow in the wind. That doesn’t mean that he won’t be happy in an exclusive relationship. But it does mean he doesn’t respond well to strict rules. Trying to control an Aquarius or nag him to get what you want can only end badly.

He doesn’t waste time on people he’s not interested in.
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Good news if you’re dating an Aquarius man: he must really like you. This sign rarely dates people for the sake of it. Romantically and platonically, he only invests in relationships that he genuinely care about. He’s not a people-pleaser and not overly empathetic, so he wouldn’t date someone just to be nice.

He prefers to go with the flow than plan ahead.
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Aquarius is the kind of partner that you can spring spontaneous dates on. In fact, this sign tends to love surprises. What he doesn’t love is planning everything ahead and having to stick to a rigid schedule. Like the other air signs, he feels much better when he can go with the flow and see where life takes him.

Sometimes, his work will come first.
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There are other signs in the zodiac more notorious for being workaholics than Aquarius. But still, this sign does tend to value his career highly. Sometimes, he prioritizes it above the relationship he’s in. Those who date him will have to be okay with his career taking up a fair bit of space in his life.

He’s one in a million.
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An Aquarian man is one in a million. He’s totally unique, doesn’t hide his quirks, and has no problems letting his natural personality shine. He also doesn’t see the point in conforming to other people’s standards just to fit in. This can be a good and a bad thing. If you prefer to blend in with the crowd and want a partner who keeps their opinions to themselves, this may not be the sign for you.

He always has to be right.
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One of the many things that Aquarian men are good at is being stubborn. Know from the beginning that it’s hard to get them to apologize or admit they’re wrong. He’s also always right. Even when he’s wrong, in his head he’s right.

He’s a great problem-solver.
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Aquarius is one of the most intelligent signs in the zodiac and is thus a great problem-solver. He’s handy to have as a date because he’ll come up with creative ways to help you with all your problems. When it comes to relationship issues, he’ll also want to iron them out as they rise rather than sweep them under the rug.

Compromise isn’t his greatest strength.
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The only problem-solving technique that Aquarius doesn’t like to use? Compromise. As this sign is always right, the only way to move forward with him is to admit that he’s right. Don’t expect him to meet you halfway. It’s his way or the highway when you’re dating an Aquarius man.

When you first meet him, he can be cold and cocky.
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It’s common for Aquarian men to give negative first impressions. They take a while to warm up to people, so they can seem cold and cocky when you first meet them. Don’t write him off straight away, as this may be just his way of protecting himself until he really gets to know you.

He’s compassionate and full of integrity.
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He may seem arrogant, but Aquarius guys are actually compassionate and stick to their morals. They often think of the well-being of others and are known for their commitment to charity. Most of them just want to make the world a better place.

He’s easily frustrated.
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One thing to know about dating an Aquarius man is that he’s easily frustrated. It doesn’t take a lot to annoy him as he’s not the most patient sign. But a good thing about that is he tends to get over his annoyance quickly!

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